Category Archives: mouths to feed

1. Everyone in the family gets the same dinner. It’s hard enough to get one good dinner on the table. I’m sure as heck not making one for kids, one for husband or any such arrangement.
2. Caveat to #1: Nobody wants to fight over Brussels sprouts after a long day of work (i.e., I always plan something kid-friendlier like green beans to serve alongside a “gross” vegetable).
3. Plan with freshness in mind. Vegetables are eaten in the order in which they go bad, e.g.,leafy greens go on Monday or Tuesday, heartier veggies like broccoli, squash, beans can be served up later. Meats can be frozen to be used late in the week if need be.
4. Meatless meals are healthy and cheap-ish and are usually included at least once a week.
5. Use what we have. It sometimes requires creativity and flexibility to incorporate random ingredients and leftovers into the meal plan, but we are fanatical about not wasting food.
6. Try to make things from scratch, but there’s no shame in short cuts. I’ll get marinara sauce from the Italian deli across the street, for example, or buy a semi-prepped piece of meat to save time. (This week’s menu includes an example of this.)

After the meals are decided, we jot down ingredients that we need to buy, add breakfast and lunch foods and anything else we need to the list, and then I open up the FreshDirect app on my phone and place my grocery order online. Usually this happens in the car on the way to or from a weekend activity. Sometimes I shop from my front porch, wine in hand.

Online grocery shopping is a whole other topic for another time, but for purposes of this discussion, I’ll just say that I LOVE IT. I’ve been a weekly online grocery shopper with FreshDirect (a NYC-based independent online grocer) since 2003. That said, most weeks I do still have to run into the grocery store at some point to get something. But picking up two or three things only takes 5 minutes and I almost never have to drag kids with me. The most common reason I hear for not wanting to try online grocery shopping is because people like to choose their own produce. I’ve never had a problem. So yes, I don’t always get to squeeze my own melons (mind out of the gutter!) but I do miss out on the experience of having kids trailing behind the cart whining for junk that I refuse to buy. So there’s that.

Though we try to plan for Monday through Friday, sometimes, like this week, we run out of steam and Friday is left blank. We’ll just have leftovers or grab something from a local market that night. And, we rarely plan Saturday and Sunday nights so far in advance, preferring instead to figure those nights out on the fly. Weekend nights are for fun cooking – making elaborate feasts for friends, trying new recipes. Unlike, as you’ll see, the basic (some of them downright mundane) weeknight meals that are easiest to get on the table.

[Side comment: I must give a shout out to my husband for his contribution to the above. I do all of the weeknight food prep because I’m home from work earlier than he is, but he often handles the farmers market shopping himself and he comes up with at least half of the menu ideas, and almost all of the good ones. I’m so lucky to have such a willing and capable partner when it comes to nourishing this family because – and perhaps you’ve noticed this too – these little people want to eat EVERY. SINGLE. DAY.]

Bottom line: Meal planning helps me get balanced and healthy dinners on the table and make efficient use of our food resources. And friends, I’m always looking for new dinner ideas. I’ll show you mine if you show me yours. 🙂

And so I present this week’s The Meals Don’t Plan Themselves: